What you are about to read is
true. Someone comes to me with a big life changing goal. They want to lose
50lbs and completely transform the way they look (and feel). Sounds reasonable,
right? I am a personal trainer so I am the right person to come to about such a
change, correct? After hearing the goals of this person, we map out the
training and we talk about the parameters of a nutrition plan to achieve it. I
want to point out that virtually every time this happens it involves physique
or body transformation rather than performance. (Athletes, no matter what level
they play at, tend to follow through and do whatever it takes).
I always ask, “What are you
prepared to do to achieve your goal?” The answer, 100% of the time is, “Whatever
it takes.” So we begin.
The first week I see them 3 times, typically the
perfect amount of training days. They tell me they’re keeping a food log, which
is the most important piece of a fat loss plan.
The second week I see them 2 times. They tell me
they had a work gathering, but other than that they’ve been really sticking to
the nutrition plan we created for them. Looking over the food journal, nothing
we discussed has really been implemented except for a the occasional token
change that is obvious.
By the third week, they don’t show at all. The
fourth week, they come in once, and they give me their food journal but tell me
that I shouldn’t really look at it “because it’s not really representative of
how I eat normally.”
The person had a big,
transformative, life-changing goal. Their actions and behavior were small,
insignificant, and inconsequential.
Wanna be let in on a secret: all of the
instant-results and quick-fixes are scams. Don’t be fooled by glossy ads in
magazines or the cute fit models looking great in the GNC ads.
If you want to change your life in a big way, you
will have to CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN A BIG WAY.
If you want to lose a
transformative amount of body fat, and keep it off forever, you must:
1.
Find time to lift
heavy weights 3 times a week.
2.
Eat differently than
you eat now. That means cut out all your dinners that can be ordered at a fast
food joint or anything meal that can be made that comes from a box.
3.
Sleep. 6-8 hours
EVERY night.
4.
Reduce or manage
stress in your life. Hint: do #1 and you will be helping yourself.
There is simply no way around this. Don’t try
to argue with me. Don’t cheat. I’m not trying to be mean. I’m just telling you
the truth.